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I remember during my working holiday in Australia and not even planning on visiting Thailand at that time an Irish work colleague told me “man you must go there, you can sit in a bar and the chicks come over talking to you without you doing anything! By now I know by bars he meant beer bars and by girls working girls or to be more precise prostitutes since in the regular bars it’s still the man who is supposed to do the first step. You can still be flirting (in Thai “jìip”, จีบ) with the girl at the coffee shop without you actually knowing it.
It’s just so much more easy to get in touch with the women here in everyday situations than it is back home and yes if she likes you she might also ask you first for your line or facebook contact but if you’re out in the bars and clubs it’s still the men who make the first move.
It’s not just that the older siblings are the main caretaker in the family both for the parents and also for the younger brothers and sisters – but this also applies to relationships where the man is usually older than the woman.
One side note before we get into the interesting part: Of course we are talking about “normal Thai women” here, means girls with day jobs, office girls and students.
And there’s more to the marrying part: Ever heard of Sin Sod (sǐn sɔ̀ɔt, สินสอด)?
That’s the amount of money you need to pay your future wife’s parents in addition to promising of taking care of her and it’s not uncommon that you’re looking at a 6-figure number here as a form of expressing your gratefulness to the family.
I know this may not sound like the common thought of most westerners that Asians and especially Thai people enjoy their life how it is and don’t worry too much about problems or what might happen in the future, but in my opinion they do think and worry a lot more than we do.
Okay, I think we shouldn’t go in too much detail here, the whole marriage topic really deserves its own article.
So now that we’ve talked quite a bit about the money aspect and sure, that’s what most people are interested in anyway but let’s have a look at some other things to find more answers to the initial question what Thai women are really like.
But they know if they want to keep their current lifestyle they need to find a guy who takes care of them once they passed their 20s.
Maybe a few of you guys now think hey I know some chicks who work as real estate agents and are doing really good.
If you are ever thinking about marrying a Thai woman then what you should be aware of is that you are not marrying only one person but a whole family and are supposed to take part in all sorts of social gatherings but also the moment you are asking her parents for permission to marry her you need to promise them to take care (in Thai “duu lɛɛ”, ดูแล) of her always.